Some people use an escort for sex, and others use it only for the company. Some escorts are willing to be your girlfriend for one night, including hugs and kisses, and some of them go with you to watch a movie or have dinner together. Here are some tips on how you should behave.
BE VERY RESPECTFUL
Do to others as you would like them to do to you. Have you worked in any low-paying jobs? If so, you will know how badly people treat you. When dealing with her, treat her with respect, not because of being a prostitute or escort is a less respectable person.
You do not have to treat it like a movie in the United States, movies only represent what people think about escorts and prostitutes. No one is more than anyone, whether you are a waiter who puts food on the table or a prostitute who sells his or her services. You do not have to treat them as second-class citizens.
DISCUSS THE LIMITS IN THE FIRST ENCOUNTER.
Each woman is different, and each woman has a different motivation to enter the world of paid sexual and non-sexual favors. A woman can allow you to smear cane honey on her and lick it in her, and other women will only let you take her hands. You should always talk about limits with a woman, especially if you are going to have sex with her. For example, she is definitely going to want you to use a condom, so this does not have to be discussed with her, but if you ask her beforehand then the escort can allow you to kiss her.
THERE’S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING FRIENDS
You do not have to invite her to meet your mother, but women in the escort industry are not bad people. They are mothers, sisters and daughters. If she looks like a good person and gets along with you, it’s okay to maintain a friendship.
DO NOT CONFUSE YOUR AFFECTION FOR ROMANTIC FEELINGS
A woman who works in the sex trade will care more about the money that the man of your life will make you, even if she treated you with great affection and admiration. However, it is necessary to remember that she is acting in this way because she has to do it. The escort is not falling in love with you, even if she does things that a loving girlfriend would do.
DO NOT TRY TO FORCE HER TO DO THINGS
It is against the law and you can be arrested for harassment (or worse), in addition many brothels, agencies or massage centers hire doormen and / or private persons who will ensure the safety of escorts.
BE POLITE AND ASK IF YOU NEED MONEY FOR ADDITIONAL THINGS
You can have sex or just take a bath together, but it’s polite to ask if you want or need extra money for those things. Or it is better for her to determine a higher fee when extra services are done.
EXPLAIN WHAT YOU LIKE AND HOW
For example, there are some men who prefer a heavily made-up woman and others who prefer a more natural look. Some men want a woman who dresses very feminine, and others want them in dominatrix suits. If it’s your first time with her, explain when she is online what your preferences are and how you would like the service, without or with sex and how.